Boys attract to girls, girls attract to boys. The attraction mentioned is interpersonal attraction, which is the liking of having the desire for a relationship with another person. There are several factors involved in the attraction of one to another, don't say that your attraction to one happens naturally ah because these rules are stated in the Psychology text, not that i'm crapping here -___- So, are you in a relationship? No? Why not? Why do the opposite sex show no interest in you & why are they not attracted by you? let's self examine with me here.
1) PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS
Research suggests that physical beauty is one of the main factors that influence people's choices for selecting partner they want to know better, although other factors may become more important in the later stages of relationships. In short, it is the first criteria of everyone of you out there when choosing bf or gf!
self answer: ok i fail, i don't have physical beauty. i fat. i short. i look stupid. i look nerdy. nao i know why no one seems to approach me liao LOL
2) PROXIMITY - CLOSE TO YOU
The closer together people are physically, such as working in the same building or studying in the same school (very romantic punya leh), the more likely they are to form a relationship. One theory about why proximity is so important involves the idea of repeated exposure to new stimuli. If you everyday bump into a lengchai in college, there must be a spark going on between you two (maybe just you only pathetically -___-)
self asnwer: no there's no "it grew on me" feelings when i everyday meet the odd-looking boys in school, neither one, mwahahahahah.
3) SIMILARITY
Proximity doesn't guarantee attraction, just as physical attractiveness doesn't guarantee long term relationship (you know la, lengchai mou bun sam ah). Thus, people now tend to like one who is more similar to you in some way. The more people find they have in common with you - such as beliefs, attitudes and interests - the more they tend to be attracted by you. He or she makes you feel right as they hold same opinions and beliefs :)
self answer: I believe in flying (bee, fly babe fly!), I believe in dreams, I believe in unreality things, I have faith in everything eventho it doesn't seem right or rational...my attitudes are changing, kinda bipolar type emotions - heavy mood swings as always.....then the conclusion, is it ONLY the people in tanjung rambutan will be attracted by me?
4) OPPOSITE REACTS
Opposite reacts is cool, 异性相吸, like magnets. Some people find forming a relationship with someone who has complementary qualities (characteristics in the other person that fill a need in the other) can be very rewarding. EG, an outgoing boy attracted to a nerdy and shy girl :D
self answer: any admirer from tanjung banana? -____-
5) RECIPROCITY OF LIKING
When you know Ah Beng who is sitting behind you likes you secretly, will you like him back? YES, according to text, people have a very strong tendency to like people who like them, a simple but powerful concept in liking! you two start texting each other, get to know and disclose more information about each other, behave in the warmer manner more if you are told that he/ she likes you in the first place. LIKING PRODUCED MORE LIKING :)
self answer: Obviously no one secretly likes me, so no love in return -___-
There are different love, the love for your family and friends are in different ways to relationship love. So, to differentiate love, there are basically three components of LOVE. o(>///<)o
1) INTIMACY -
The feelings of closeness of one has to another person, in the sense of psychological but not physical. They disclose things to each other that most people might not know, they have strong emotional ties to each other. Briefly, it's that....when you're upset & need for a talk, who will you go to?
2) PASSION -
The physical aspect of love! Emotion and SEXUAL AROUSAL a person feel towards a person. However, not simply sex la wei - it can be holding hands, loving looks, and hugs 
3) COMMITMENT
No one seems to like this, ahahahaha. The decision one makes about a relationship. A short term decision might be "I think i am in love"; long term decision would be "I want to be with this fella for the rest of my life"
SO, a love relationship can involve two or three components of the above. If you are in a relationship now, which love are yours belong to?
1) CONSUMMATE LOVE = INTIMACY + PASSION + COMMITMENT
2) ROMANTIC LOVE = INTIMACY + PASSION
3) COMPANIONATE LOVE = INTIMACY + COMMITMENT
4) FATUOUS LOVE = PASSION + COMMITMENT
5) INFATUATION = PASSION
6) LIKING = INTIMACY
7) EMPTY LOVE = COMMITMENT
I WANT INFATUATION!!!!
P/S: this will be the essay/ short answer question for the psychology final later, so i am doing revision. :D
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haha i wonder where u find all the pics..its just out of no where but its cute..ahaha
this just remind me of law of attraction, i am still half way to finish the book yet. nice.
psycho is so real! that's why i love it! XD
we're in d same frequency babe! having mood swings too! but not so serious like ur bipolar la! haha..me cyclothymia except for d 2 years jeh!
fly babe fly! copyrighted one har
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