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女人的尊嚴

Sharing 2011/08/12 20:00
我任性地以為，只要凡事對得起自己的良心，很多時候根本沒必要向誰交代什麽。
後來，我漸漸收起這份任性，我擔憂、害怕、心虛，疑神疑鬼地認定某某出賣了我對他/她的信任，他們好像在流言蜚語著自己，嘲笑著自己的醜陋和狼狽。然後，就會像個做錯事得不到原諒的小孩，一直活在自卑又自責的無底洞裡頭，深感后悔和难过，像只误入歧途的迷途羔羊。尽管，那已经是过去式并不值一提的小事一桩。

我想，一个女人的尊严会是什么？或许，对于正值青春期的女孩，尊严是身体的纯洁，那片脆弱又珍贵的处女膜；对于轻熟女孩，是本身的言行和举止，男女之情；对于成熟女人，或许是身边的男人，有稳定事业或雄厚收入；尊严可能卑微得是手上提着的昂贵名牌包包；尊严又或是幸福美满的婚姻；尊严是循循善诱培养出上进懂事的孩子......等等。一个女人，在不同的年龄阶段，追求不同的精神粮食，尊严会随着阅历和时间渐渐转换。

根据百度，尊严是指人和具有人性特征的事物，拥有应有的权利，并且这些权利被其他人和具有人性特征的事物所尊重。简而言之，尊严就是权利被尊重。曾今，尊严这鸡毛蒜皮的小事，根本就不在冒险心强，贪图新鲜的我的词典内 —— 反正我知道分寸就好。殊不知，很多事情，其实我都看得很开，例如摄影的观点？所谓检点的举止？然后，看在别人眼里却是另外一回事，传入我的耳里时尽是："她看起来像个很可爱的小女生，可是竟然拍这样的照片...."、“我以为她是个很检点的女生，竟然玩得那么颠，太不自爱了...”、“还一位她很懂事，可是竟然会那么无知又单纯！” 说实话，有一段时间我非常缺乏自信，觉得自己在人前就像是个很没尊严的女生，似乎，和身边的女生朋友不太一样。如今亦是如此，不变的还是潜藏的自卑。

那天，一个朋友斩钉载铁地说：“一个女生最重要的是什么？是名誉。你今天的决定，会影响你的未来、你的一生。它直接地影响别人对你人格的评价，你是什么样的女人。”无可否认，先入为主是人类的本性。尊严和名誉息息相关，一个女人的尊严是如何尊重自己的身体和心理，而以尊严为待人处事之一的基石，形成别人的评价，也就是名誉。

我莞尔，突然领悟，自己不该是那个活在自己世界里头的小女孩。我已经是个踏入社会的女生，处理任何事，都会牵涉身边的人和事，都必须考虑周遭，必须摒弃“我知道自己在做什么就好”的观念。女人的尊严，应该被重视，除了自尊，还要循规蹈矩地被别人尊重。我正在努力着。


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2011/08/12 20:00 2011/08/12 20:00
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你真的需要一部 iPhone 吗？

Sharing 2011/08/08 17:45
不需要。

我只是一个下课啃面包的穷书生，又不是做舍大生意，根本用不着那么canggih的手机啊！我只要一部可以让我安安稳稳地通电话、发简讯.....就这两个基本功能就行了的手机。反正，手机本来就该是这样：通电、简讯，而且我生活无聊不花俏，没有玩游戏的习惯，用不着需要一架奢侈品 iPhone 吧？两千块我可以去很多地方旅行了咧！iPhone is only a brand ok, phew~~~

—— 不过！那是我在还未拥有一部苹果之前，理直气壮地说。
自从拥有了这风靡全球的智能手机之后，我彻底改观，甚至觉得天啊怎么办，我好像这一生人都不再用其他牌子了！像个损友般不断推动身边的朋友都买一台，如此一来可以保持亲密关系，要联络彼此也更为方便不过。所以很多时候，我觉得情侣各自拥有一部爱疯，绝对是恋情的催长剂，能够时时保持联络之余，还能清楚知道对方所在位置，很难偷吃喔！

在还未发表自己对这伟大发明的敬仰之前，先看看这个影片：
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈 I DON'T CARE! I WANT AN IPHONE 4! (≧▽≦)/



上个星期，我的笔记本电脑坏了，送到HP Service Centre 修理了一个星期 ++
在这段没有电脑、没有功课、没有情人、没有约会、没有活动、没有节目、没有工作，死沉沉的假期里，拯救了我这个对世界绝望的宅女的，是锵！锵！锵！锵！伟大的 iPhone！#foreveralone -___- 其实还挺感动的，我在想，没有了它，我到底是怎么打发时间的呢？把家里打扫得一尘不染？每天死缠烂打地狂call在上课的朋友们出来喝喝茶、吃个包？还是量地数砖块？(⊙_⊙) 可见，现代的小孩都糜烂在科技发达的世界里头,.....唉。可是这也不能怪我们这些死小孩的，你告诉我，家以外有一块绿油油的草地给我奔跑吗？门前有一颗树给我攀爬吗？有小河给我抓鱼吗？委屈一点的水沟污浊不见底，你说有鱼吗？那你要我干嘛？只好，坐在四方格前窥一窥这广阔的世界咯......

话说回来，来看看手上的 iPhone 怎么拯救宅女：

1.）Instagram
对于喜欢拍照，喜欢看美丽的照片的我，INSTAGRAM 这 APP 简直像是另一个天堂。这里你可以看到来自世界各地的人们，他们分享自己的生活、爱好、美食、人物、美女等等。而当然，你也可以毫无肆忌地分享自己的生活，这里不像面子书那么高曝光率（哈哈），不会被人report 你 Po 了一张”不恰当“的照片（非常怀恨在心，到底是谁port我！开完笑，才没跟你计较）。

宅女的生活，你吃了一个苹果、你刚睡醒的丑样，坐在马桶上的失态样，这些乏味至极的照片最适合放在这属于你自己的小圈子，不需要任何人的Like或留言，不过是一种宣泄。在这里，我爱窥看......PORN STAR的私人生活（真的！）、香港嫩模的美美照、性感纹身女、日本人的慢活主义、日本人的健康饮食、日本插画家超赞的点子.....等等。这里分享这我最爱的日本妈咪 Emichyxxx，每早拍下孩子吃饭时的模样，而且每一餐都准备得很用心哦：

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OMG 这样的小孩你可以不爱吗！！！
另外一位是我极为崇拜的日本插画家 TOMOKO SHINTANI：

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太厉害了。
对我而言，Instagram就像个世界的小视窗，偶尔窥一窥，看看别人和自己的文化/思想差别，觉得自己不再活在自己狭小的圈子里头。

2.）PPS
这个相信多数人的电脑里都会有吧？真是感谢PPS 出现在 STORE 里，让我可以轻松看电影！
没有电脑的这段日子，我从手机小小的银幕看了：《不再让你孤单》、《小红帽》、《犀利人妻》、《新少林寺》、《告白》。

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3.）MAIL
随时随地可以检查Mail，相信很多智能手机都有吧，真方便。
询问了很多土耳其接近大学附近的住宿，收到了一些女生的邀请，轻轻松松回复信件！

4.）WHATSAPP
和有此功能的朋友聊天，就像MSN一样，只要有网络连接，就能简单地联络在另外一头的朋友。想起以前经常花费许多心思和时间去构思一封简讯，把所有想说的话都吝啬地挤在一封简讯里头，害怕遗漏什么......但是通过WHATSAPP 呢，可以毫无肆忌地高谈阔论~ 随时随地保持联络，干扰对方，发送照片，迷路了让对方DETECT你的所在位置，录影、录音.......LIVE PROFILE也有同样功能。同样圈子的朋友也可以组成一个GROUP，随时更新各自近况。

4.）VIBER
免费通电话！虽然偶尔收线会不稳定，不过OK :D

5.）IBOOKS
无聊期间，我从手机看了JANE AUSTEN的《SENSE AND SENSIBILITY》—— 很久很久以前的一本爱情小说。
虽然怎么也不比拿着一本实实在在的书好，但确实打发不少时间，呵呵。

6.）WORDWEB
遇到不懂的生字？查字典！我想这APP是上课的时候用最多的，简单方便，根本不需电脑辞典！

6.）WORDPOWERLT
免费学习土耳其文！！！！！！

7）SINCHEW-I / TIME MOBILE
看看最新新闻。

8.)WAZE
朋友介绍的GPS，免费GPS，驾车时可以知道前方塞车、有路障、有警察....等等。
带你避开繁忙路段，走不为人知的捷径，甚至可以在塞车时和附近拥有此功能的用户聊天 -_-

9.) 美图秀秀
三个字：没得顶。
当然，还有很多修图的APPS, 功能都让人跌破眼镜。

10.）CURRENCY
正在准备预算的我，只要打开这个APP，就能轻松知道xx马币换成土耳其里拉是多少？


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手机里头的APPS应有尽有，也有许许多多古灵精怪的游戏，有些收费，有些免费。当然，以上这些都是我经常在用着的，也拯救我无聊的时间，免去许多麻烦，让生活轻松简易很多，只要随手一点击，世界就在你眼前。可是有好处，亦有患。很多时候，会突然觉得自己太依赖手机，只要一离开手心就会PARANOID，甚至有事没事都会按按几下。偶尔会觉得，自己好像很久没好好坐下来静静地沉淀心情，或是胡思乱想一番了。那些静思的时间，都花在按按这、按按那的习惯。

看过一篇关于一个女中学生为了要买一台 iPhone 而在茨厂街卖身的新闻，也有人不过为了炫耀，或PEER PRESSURE等等。很悲哀吧。我还是要随时提醒自己这些生活原则：秉持中庸之道，感恩知足，一切从简。这篇文章不自在宣扬/ 推销 iPhone 多好，所以你应该马上去买一部，而是纯粹想感谢它的发明如何拯救宅女的我，哈哈哈哈 o(≧v≦)o~~ 所以大家当笑话看看就好啦。

结论，你真的需要一部 iPhone 吗？ 用了它之后，我真的觉得自己非常依赖地需要.....
所以，我真的好希望自己继续活在那个曾经坚持地信仰超傻瓜手机的时代里，唉。


2011/08/08 17:45 2011/08/08 17:45
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我崇拜的一个男生 Shake~

Sharing 2011/06/29 20:29
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秋天是个尴尬的季节
路上的行人形形色色
有人戴着冬帽穿着大衣
有人穿着背心短裤吃着冰淇淋

而我的爱情像秋天。没有绝对。

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[因为梦想会走，家不会走。]
是时候往前走了。
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如果一个颜色可以形容他
那一定是大家公认的黑色
后来我渐渐发现
原来他有时是蓝色的、绿色的、或是白色的
甚至是没有颜色

一个影响我很深的朋友
一个我暗自崇拜的朋友
一个支持赞同我的朋友
一个可以聊天光的朋友
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点击部落格：阿杀死的天空
先恭喜入围新加坡部落格大奖2011 最佳摄影部落格
我一向都觉得低调的shake绝对实至名归，他的照片会说故事，而他也是个会说故事的人
没有夸张的修图、没有华丽的背景、没有穿着三点式的清凉美女（应该是他找不到 哈哈）、没有做作的人物和景色
一切都源自于生活里静静观察的每一细节 每一时刻
安静的 却有着云淡风轻 又或耿耿于怀的感动
似乎曾经有过的感受都以图文的方式呈现在他的笔下
正如他人一样 可以是静如止水的黑色 也可以是情绪澎湃的....黑色（呵）
喜欢他的朋友可以投他一票：http://sgblogawards.omy.sg/2011/category/?cat=photography

加油！！！
期待你纽西兰归来的一天
【这是我对你最高调的爱意】
【不用客气哦】
【不要窒息哦】
【嘻嘻】


2011/06/29 20:29 2011/06/29 20:29
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妈咪，我今天不回家可以吗？

Sharing 2011/06/13 02:43
通常聪明的我都不会这样问。
“妈咪，我今天不回家了咯！OK bye bye！......嘟——嘟——嘟”
——与其提出一个寻求同意又自讨苦吃的疑问句，不如先斩后奏的陈述句会来得更实在兼保险。

今天一个亲戚到我家来跟婆婆闲话家常了几句，间中聊起了家里两个女儿的状况。她看起来很无奈，对于女儿开始交往、夜归、甚至不归的问题觉得很头痛，心痛，打也不是骂也不是，懊恼着该如何管教她们。小女儿处于叛逆时期，芳龄16卜卜脆，人小鬼大，经常在面子书或部落格里看到她如何地早熟，想要追求像某某人一样的生活、装扮、待遇或思想。之前早在几年前就见她经常年纪小小就蒲夜店，抽烟喝酒，可是如今正在交往的男生还挺不错，帅帅的讨好外表，活泼可爱又有礼貌，不至于让我这个长辈太操心。

反而是和我同龄的大女儿，正在和一个(不懂该怎么形容的)男生交往，喜欢蒲夜店爱喝酒抽烟，应该是辍学正在工作的男生，非常让父母担心，爸爸和哥哥劝了又劝还是听不进脑。说真的，鸡婆的我看到他们在面子书的照片，也先入为主地对这男生鲁莽地下判断，觉得看不顺眼......这样的男生就像不务正业的烂男生，说话大声没有种，随时很有可能让你怀孕然后没钱给你堕胎生下却没钱付奶粉钱，离婚收场不要孩子让你自生自灭我继续花天酒地的那种；不是戴着有色眼镜看不起辍学的人，只是有一种男生.......就是如此地让人坚信自己的直觉：烂男生，不要也罢！（以上立场完全不成立，纯属我自己自以为是的看法）

亲戚说，不反对女儿拍拖，不过至少要记得回家，不要让别人看了觉得这样的女生如此随便，下流，没有尊严。“每天不回家，别人会怎样想你？” 她说。身为别人的女儿的我，不是没有试过不回家的经验，不是没有流连夜店不想返家的感觉，不是没有让爸爸妈妈无奈又拿我没办法的时候，不是没有在朋友家过夜的日子，不是没有听过“你是个女孩子，每天不回家，别人会怎样想你”这句耳熟能详的句子，所以当我听到亲戚和自己的母亲这样的倾述，突然特别多感触。这样的感觉很奇妙，看着一个中年母亲对着自己年老的母亲，说着本身处于青春期的女儿们的吾家有女初成长的故事......让我深深地觉得，母亲和女儿的关系好奥妙。

“我也像你一样如花貌美年轻过，你干什么来，你想做些什么，你以为我不懂？” —— 这是我妈妈经常跟我说的话。我们的相处方式很特别，比较像是姐妹，几乎毫不隐瞒地我会告诉她所有的大小事情和身边出现的人物，也庆幸她是个思想开通的母亲，可以接受我这个吃软不吃硬的女儿。我想，我肯定是遗传她。从小到大，她从来就不这么担心过我，别人的女儿几点前一定要回家，有规定的门禁和必须遵守的家规，我却像是被过分放纵的小鸟，夜归要通知一声就行了。我不晓得有多少个夜晚，他们是睡不着觉等着我回家的，可是据我所知，他们还真的很放心。也因为这样，很多时候我都会仗着拥有这样的自由，直到通宵才甘愿回家。

一直到最近，我承认自己是做了很错的事情，让她抛下一句：我再也不会相信以前那个很乖的女儿了“
挺难过的，甚至她开始会注意我又乱跑哪里去了，狂打电话来追问自己的行踪，设下一些没说出口却无形中让人倍感压力的门禁。我开始想要无声抗议，但当我看见这位母亲脸上写满担忧的样子，听见她沉重又无奈的语气，我感受到......为人父母，还真不易；而我身为女儿的，不是应该逃避甚至对抗，而是更应该做些可以让她对我有信心的举动。我经常都告诉她，”你不要管我，你知道我是会想的女孩子，我会找到让自己更好的方式“，你不要管我你不要管我你不要管我你不要管我........我都会觉得，不要管我，真的那么难吗？

开始想象自己有个女儿，我能够接受”你不要管我“吗？
——以我的性格，我一定是个保护欲很强的母亲，更何况她不是一个可以草草了事粗吃粗活的大男孩，她是一个我必须小心翼翼守护在掌心里的小公主，我可以不要管她，让别人蹂躏和糟蹋吗？肯定不行。如果有一天她说，”妈咪，我今天不回家可以吗？“ 肯定不行。不管她如何会想，会照顾自己，还是会担心外头充满诡计的饥饿野兽会把她剥皮刮肉地吃了，所以，无论如何还是尽量回家吧！

妈妈在我生命中占据了很重要的位置，我希望可以当个不让她操心的女儿。
”妈咪，我今天不回家可以吗？“ —— 还是能免则免，你觉得呢？




一个曾经不喜欢回家的女孩共勉之。



2011/06/13 02:43 2011/06/13 02:43
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给15岁的自己

Sharing 2011/04/26 18:38
十五岁，给我的感觉就像是青涩的芒果，嫩嫩的，却总是带酸。
青溜溜的，但始终会成熟 —— 十五岁像是个心理和生理上相互折腾和寻找自我定位的过渡期；
它可以是如此地云淡风轻，柔和不烫手，也可以是翻云覆雨般，疯狂地燃烧着挥洒自如的青春。

我的十五岁是一个非常重要的转涙点，就像一架飞机腾空而起，直上云霄之前，做了最好的准备。
当年的充实和热血不在话下，一个人就带着满溢的勇敢，顶着热血方刚的气魄，奔上奔下学生记者大小型的活动和会议，从不言累。有话直说，大声地说出自己的想法和意见，总是尝试得到别人的认同和尊重。这段期间，认识了与以往不同圈子的人，不同的看法、不同的坚持、不同的个性、不同的态度和处理方式，从中渐渐学习了妥协、接受和包容；接触了一些努力扶持和协助我的贵人、学哥学姐们，大家都在极端的欢笑和泪水中成长和释怀.....多么美好啊！

那是我目前人生中最重要的第一个阶段：学习和人相处和建立信任
没有这些大起大落的青春岁月，我想我现在不过是个渴求平平淡淡，害怕做梦又极度自卑的小女生。


你的十五岁呢？

【正义】、【坚强】、【疯狂】、【浪漫】、【绝对】、【诚实】、【简单】、【勇敢】、【好奇】、【自由】、【热血】、【纯真】、【认真】、【梦想】、【信念】—— 台湾《多喝水》矿泉水的《十五影展》选择了以短片的方式，淡淡地带出你我十五岁时的十五个价值。答应了shake写一份观后感计划书，谢谢他的分享，这里分享的是我喜欢的几支短片：

《跳舞吧 牧牧》是我最喜欢的一支。



《少年陈光卿》简简单单却如此地深刻．．．．ＴＴ 爱是不分对象的。



《洋洋的愿望》喜欢洋洋。


《最后一堂毕业考》爱。


《失去的颜色》—— 还我蓝天白云！


《一定》太阳一定会从东边升起.......



《遥控女孩》——我曾经也是一个遥控女孩。


《我的梦想》注意后面那个句子。




五月的台湾行，我想买一支《多喝水》矿泉水。
突然想起了刘若英的歌：

天空会不会雨停会不会放晴
会不会幸福在终点等著我和你
会不会是我忘记还能勇敢地去淋雨
我们继续走下去继续往前进
继续走向期待中的未知旅行
感觉累了的时候抱著我们的真心
静静好好地休息



2011/04/26 18:38 2011/04/26 18:38
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Wash your brushes!

Sharing 2011/04/25 06:32
I have been wanting to do this since long, but it's like my miserable diet plan, it always comes tomorrow. Thus days by days, months by months, when i finally surprisingly shockingly realized it was already around half a year that i did not wash my face. Ops, yes, I DID NOT WASH MY FACE. Because according to this video, from my idol Michelle Phan, not washing the brushes is equivalent of not washing my face.

Deng. I know why my face so cham already, it must be because due to my laziness i have been reapplying all the unfresh old make up, sebum, dirt, oil and bacteria on my face everyday, everyday & E-V-E-R-Y-D-A-Y...while feeling perasan that i actually looked quite good after the revamping process (even though without makeup-look is kanasai but i still don't care as long as i apply chemical everyday la). Unfortunately the fact is, without good skin= no good make up so...aih, no matter how thick the make up is i will still look kanasai. Now i know.
 
Therefore in order to take extra good care of my ugly moon face, i gotta start with washing brushes! Followed the tips given by MP, one disinfect anti bacterial handwash and an extra virgin olive oil are prepared!

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#2 Uncleaned brushes

#3 Pour the extra virgin oil and the anti bacterial handsoap on a plate.

#4 Blend them together and you will see some very naisssssss colour combination ohmygod.

#5 Rinse with cold water.

#6 Drying the brushes & Done! Yeah i have clean brushes to swamp my face now!
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AND THE REST IS SIMPLY MY EXCESSIVE VANITY.
SO THIS IS A WARNING FOR YOU TO LEAVE IF YOU DON'T LIKE PEOPLE WHO ARE VERY MUCH OBSESSED IN TAKING THEIR OWN FANCY FANCY PICTURES, LIKE ME.
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#7 Fresh and clean brushes like i just bought :D

#8 eerm.

#9 Looking tired no matter how hard i squeeze and fake the smile :'(

#10 simply a prop ahem.

#11 So i decided that since i am cute i should do some 12345 pose. (-_______-#)
One;

#12 Two

#13 Three

#14 Four

#15 Five. ok done. my fingers also tired lo.

#16 cute girl must pose like this.

I know, big eyebags plus dark circles. I know, ugly moon face.
T______________________________________T kanasai, i should photoshop lo!!!
ps: i like this lipstick colour, very kissable pink! :) ok bye end of vain post.


2011/04/25 06:32 2011/04/25 06:32
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How To Take Good Picture of Yourself

Sharing 2011/03/20 18:14
There are two situations:

First, you saw a pretty girl passed by you in school, overwhelmed by her beauty you went home checking for her facebook. After all the searching and prospecting, you found her facebook and you are surprised. Oh such a wonderful girl! Although she looks OK only in her pictures....but she looks awesome in real! I am gonna message her!

Second, you saw a pretty girl who studies the same school with you on facebook, overwhelmed by her beauty you messaged her, and surprisingly, she replied immediately! After all the flirting and chatting, you met her in school and you got shocked. Oh kanasai!!!! this time siao liao! she looks like 如花 in real instead of Vivian Hsu in facebook!

However, there is always the third situation whereby the girl looks just the same in her pictures or in real, no surprise and no major shock. As a conclusion, facebook is a good tool to cheat! whether you look good in real than your pictures or you look just the same in both, sometimes you just have to cheat sikit - morally and ethically, with not much of technical editing but with good camwhoring skills.

Afterall, i think a good picture must be able to portray the best of that person, regardless of pretty or ugly, tall or short, thin or fat. A good picture of yourself should be able to make others go "wow, he/she can have different faces in pictures! Didn't know that this wall flower can be this cute, i must notice him/her more in school!" Plus, a good picture increases your self confidence (wow, i actually look quite good hor?) and also makes people feel comfortable looking at it, no?

1) Understand your face features and like at least one part of it.

#1

For me, i love my eyes and broad smile with teeth, like picture #2. I hate my broad fat short nose without nose bridge, i know i know, that's the typical ugly nose that women can't live with & that's why the plastic surgery. Honestly, I think having a pretty nose is important as it can tremendously change a person's overall appearance. For more reference, google Xiaxxue's or Dawwnyangg's before and after.

Though at this moment i have totally zero desire to go for one nose job or liposuction or whatsoever, but i don't go against it as long as the nose won't fall down when you sneeze; boobs won't pecah & all the jelly flow out; and most importantly, you feel confident and GREAT for being who you are after all the customization.

Hmm! I have gone too far, fyi plastic surgery is not the crux of this post.
Understanding your face features is for example if you like your big eyes, don't be shy to shine them! Apply some pretty eyeshadow to enhance the shape and to create some depth to your eyes. If you have ugly nose, then let angle helps you - turn your head slightly away from the camera then tilt your head down. Your nose will definitely look longer and smaller, as well as your face will look thinner without disgusting double chin!  

2.) Let your hands help you

#2

Sometimes you feel awkward posing infront the camera, you don't know where should you put your hands, in the end you just stand straight & look at the camera clumsily as if you are taking passport picture.

Why not let your hands help you? Posing with hand supporting your chin, fingers touching your face, playing with your hair & etc will definitely add in more characters into your boring self portrait!
This is me. Nah. This is Patty Hou 侯佩岑. See how she demonstrates the way to fully utilize hand postures. :D

#3

Or with something else, eg: lollipop, apple, banana, book, bear etc.
Com'on, posing with any random things on hand is always women's natural ritual!

3.) Try different facial expression

#4

If you always have that one and only smile, angle and expression, what's the point of taking so much sickening pictures? I have browsed some random facebook profiles and seriously, i feel scared looking at some girls' pictures in which they have 100 pictures with only one odd expression. HOW CAN ALL THE ANGLE, SMILE, EXPRESSION AND WHATSOEVER BE SO PERFECTLY PARALLEL?

Don't think that you look silly or lebih. Girls should try more!


4) BUT! Avoid too much of pouting.

#5

Like this. My point of view, it creates dislike if you do it excessively.

Perhaps that's one of the reason why i don't like Rainnie Yang? I know, pouting sometimes is cute but you gotta be very careful and make sure that you are doing it right because it might become like this....
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DANG! What do you think? cute?


5) PHOTOSHOP!

This is optional as it is only meant for people who intended to cheat people with their pictures! Basically there are two usage of Photoshop.
First, to enhance the overall feeling and lighting of the picture, for example:
Second, to do some dirty editing :O
See the difference? HAHAHAHAHA. Ordinary girl next door on the left and typical lenglui on the right.

6.) To be in love with your camera

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Regardless of what camera you are using, be it DSLR, digital camera or handphone camera, the golden rule of taking a good picture of yourself is to be in love with your camera! Look into your camera as if you are looking at your partner (no also must imagine ok) and remember to soften your eyes! It is not necessary to always widen your pupils to achieve that pretty look, sometimes your soft and smiley eyes are the one that capture people's heart!

I hope this helps? Happy taking the best picture of yourself!：）

2011/03/20 18:14 2011/03/20 18:14
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I take my hat off to all Japanese

Sharing 2011/03/19 08:39
A leopard never changes its spots.

I went to a local telco to pay off my broadband bill which has been delaying for months (Veli the poor ah aih -_-) Alright, it's actually i hate visiting to XX with lousy customer service, lining up to get number that there are almost 50 turns before it's my turn, sitting down beside some random uncles who will stare at you like they have never seen any young sweet girl in their entire life (I am LOL), some shaking their legs, some just....I don't know but very unlikely you will like that kind of situation and environment. Everything is moving fast, people talking loud, passing fast as if everyone is mad rushing, and sometimes they just crowded over the front desk.

CHIP CHAP CHIP CHAP CHIP CHAP......

You must be saying, pay online la deng, what era now edi still go line up to pay bills meh!
I know. I KNOW. But i have no idea why always when i wanted to pay online, it will not show me the bill! ERROR - it shows each time without failing!!! Therefore i have to go through all the noisy CHIP CHAP CHIP CHAP CHIP CHAP..... Therefore i got so annoyed at why Malaysian don't queue up? Therefore i got so annoyed by the congested crowds in the front desk. Therefore i decided to put on my earphone and turn on my Lisa Ono. Therefore out of the sudden, i thought about Japan.



Supermarket workers try in vain to save products from falling from the shelves.
Seriously, when earthquake hits, the first thing they did was not thinking ohmygod earthquake has come, i have to run as fast as possible the slower i run the faster i die!

BUT......
THEY RUSHED TO RESCUE THE WINE T___T

Their extreme calmness during emergency and how devoted workers they are into their own profession just make me T.O.T.A.L.L.Y speechless. Salute.





I heard from Flyfm that what happening in Japan now is that people are lining up to get food, water and other necessities supply, one by one so patiently, without looting and pillaging. Not even pushing and fighting. Japanese themselves are organized, controlled, independent and calm in dealing with the disastrous tragedy, they maintained quiet dignity despite dwindling supplies of necessities and electricity.

Chaos simply does not take place in Japan.

There's no looting of Japanese museum.

There's no protest wanting Prime Minister Naoto Kan to be impeached.

There's no panicking among the nation.

I wonder how could they do that? Let's just take our country as example. Have you ever take KTM - especially during peak hours? Not exaggerating, but it is and will remain forever ever as my nightmare in my entire life. During 5 to 6pm, DO NOT take KTM because everyone is trying so hard to push each other as if it is a disgrace to themselves for not being able to get into the poor commuter.

I have been through a lot of bad experiences taking KTM and suffice to say, I HATE IT.
There was once, i got so fed up with the pushing  so i waited 3 rounds for the crowds to finally become lesser. Sometimes, i no eye see and let the crowds to push me inside. Sometimes, i being very high fighting spirit, wanted to get home desperately, will push with them together - nah, malaysian attitude, what a disgrace.

If there is one day, mother earth got so fuckup with blessed Malaysia with no natural disasters threw an earthquake here, everyone will die - not because of the earthquake itself also die of panicking pushing fighting and all.

Japan's grace under fire makes everyone of us succumbed to their communitarian spirit - which is the foundation of Japanese culture. I read some news and saw someone described the trait Japanese demonstrated is "gaman" or preserverance, that as children growing up, it is well instilled in them via their parents & school system.

GAMAN - ガマン - if you use a google translator, it means 我慢 in chinese. As Japan Times defines it, "In Japanese, the word "GAMAN" means the display of calm forbearance and poise in the face of adverse circumstances beyond one's control."

In a nutshell, I take my hat off to all Japanese, a truly civilized nation.
I felt like a freeloader taking granted for every breath, a yummy chicken thigh, a comfortable bed to lay and roll & etc. Should us learn this respected value of them, GAMAN?


2011/03/19 08:39 2011/03/19 08:39
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Greet my Be@rbrick Spongebob Squarepants!

Sharing 2011/03/14 09:25
Spongebob Squarepants - A sponge named Bob who wears a square pants?

Frankly, I grow up hating this awful looking sponge with weird blue eyes - each with 3, THREE fragile eyelashes on top, gross teeth that urgently needed a braces - which I don't think it's possible as Mr. Spongebob only has 2, TWO tooths entirely, pimpled cheeks that needed a facial treatment and whatnot? I remember those days when I happily switched on the television on blissful Sunday morning for my TV3 cartoons session, I got so, SO, SO annoyed by this noisy Spongebob Squarepants theme song: "Are you ready kids? Aye aye captain! I can't hear you! Aye aye captain!!!.......SPONGEBOB SQUAREPANTS SPONGEBOB SQUAREPANTS..."

I felt like tearing this ugliest yellow creature into two pieces, rubbing them on my plates with curry stains! I don't know, I just hated its nonsenses, ignorance and ... hyperactive attitude?

A very folly say of Spongebob: "I'm so cold, i can use my nose drippings as chopsticks". Ahem, speechless.

#1 Spot my Be@rbrick!

Never did i know i will start liking this foolish piece of sponge. Guess it's because of its extreme optimism and positive energy in handling ups and downs in life? I am liking it so much right now that I *obsessively* having a spongebob wallet, spongebob desktop background, spongebob handphone wallpaper....while looking for more related products. I wanna spread the yellow! *winks*

Surprise enough, it happened that I was being very lucky to be chosen as the winner to get a 400% Be@rbrick from Action City! Viola! And what really surprised me is that, the be@rbrick i won is a Be@arbrick Spongebob Squarepants!!! O-M-G!
 

#2 The crossover of Be@rbrick and Spongebob should be Be@rSponge or Brickbob something like that LOL


#3 Nothing, trying to imitate those japanese models in VIVI magazine who show their tongue prettily A____A


#4 It's hands can be lifted! -__-||| I know, I am late. It just reminds me of those toys i used to play during my childhood such as Power Ranger or Barbie dolls in which at the end their hands and legs had been pathetically removed from their body. Because both of them fought a lot ...

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In case you don't know what is a Be@rbrick, here's some little information about it..Oh wait! let me say something first, YOU ARE OUT! Alright satisfied, Be@rbrick is a collectible toys designed and produced by the Japanese company MediCom Toy Incorporated. Each Be@rbrick features nine parts: head, torso(body), hips, arms, hands and legs; Whereby these nine tools allow eight points of articulation: swivel head, swivel waist, ball joint arms, swivel wrists, and ball joint legs!

What really sparks the specialty of Bearbrick is that, despite the basic figures of Bearbricks, MediCom has collaborated with various artists and designers from Asia, Australia, Europe and North America. Contributors range from visual artists to graffiti artists to well known fashion designers such as Karl Lagerfeld and Vivienne Westwood!

Of course, there are collaborations such as Be@rmickey mousebrick, Be@rwinnie Brickthepooh, Be@rLilo Thestitchbrick, Be@rsuper Brickman.......& etc (FYI all names are created by me)! Not forgetting my Be@rsponge Brickbob!

Some Be@rbricks are produced in limited numbers, and not released. They are highly collectible, and predominantly collected by adults. As the packaging states a big Warning sign: CHOCKING HAZARD! RECOMMENDED FOR AGES 15 & Up!

#8
I'm wondering, why did no one gift me a Be@rbrick as my birthday present?  
In fact, I honestly think Be@rbrick could be a best birthday present if you didn't know what to gift and that the birthday boy/girl is someone who loves & appreciates unique things!

I think Be@rbrick is highly addictive too, having a Be@rbrick Spongebob Squarepants, i greedily wanting more & more Be@rbrick! Imagine how cool and self satisfied can it be when your racks are full of colorful Be@rbricks! .....SO CUTE right! Alright, i have to stop thinking about it until someone gifted me another one LOL

Last note, THANK YOU ACTION CITY for giving me this cutest creature!!!!! Don't worry, I will bring it for a walk everyday  

2011/03/14 09:25 2011/03/14 09:25
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【内在美】最重要

Sharing 2011/01/30 16:52
上个学期班上有个成熟气质型美女，身上的trademark除了那头凌乱美的长卷发，就是手上提着的中型蓝色Long Champ包包。
虽说这款简单低调的名牌包包普遍得你随意在MidValley逛街都会看见十个九个，但说真的，名牌拿在不同人的身上会有不同效果。名牌或许能显示一个人的品味，可是修养却是磋逐不来的，那是要靠真金火炉的锻炼而修成的。品味和修养，缺一不可，否则身上的古及、衣妖v、迪哟等等，只要一开口说话就变成了俗气。

说远了......其实我只想表达这美女和手上的名牌包包很相衬。
男生爱看美女的本能是从古至今不变的事实，我也不否认“看美女能延年益寿”这句话，因为.......我也实在太爱看美女啦！！上课无聊或打瞌睡的时候，我总很感激这些美女的存在，让世界变得好美好  细心观察美女们的衣着、言行、举止、姿势、皮肤、发型，从而揣测她们的个性、背景和喜好。不要怪我这么stalker和pervert的行为，哈哈哈，美女就是公共产业，供人欣赏的嘛。

话说回这个美女，我和朋友观察偷窥到她上课偶尔有摇脚的习惯。Well，美女摇脚的画面依然是很美丽的（想象你的女神_ _ _摇脚的画面），不至于不雅观，可是社会规范的标准下......还是稍微扣了分。然后有一次，或许是早上太匆忙赶出门的关系？我们发现到......................坐在前面的这个美女低腰裤里冒出一件素色的、皱皱的阿嬤内裤！

轰～隆～天～崩～地～裂～

陶晶莹的《我爱故我在》里有一篇《告别大内裤》，她说：“大内裤 —— 这三个字看起来超不受欢迎、超不性感，应该是男人女人都不想花时间了解又超想摆脱的东西。“ 我记得妈妈总是劝我扔了抽屉里那些总是默默包容我，让我感到自在又安全的大码阿嬤内裤，她说：“女人的内在美最重要”。而我，说实话，还挺喜欢穿着它们，反正.......都没有人看？

不知你是否听谁说过，要当美女的守则之一，就是要爱自己的内裤，摒弃那些皱皱的阿嬤内裤——就算没人看。就算外貌ok ok，身材不算辣，可是内穿一条超性感或可爱的内裤是非常加分，也能让自己更有自信。反而一个身材火辣的美女，衣着鲜艳靓丽，手提昂贵包包，可是当瞧见她内穿的一条阿嬤内裤时，男人就像当头棒喝，什么胃口都没有了，是不是？

我和我的朋友无奈地笑了，讨论着或许那是件紧身裤之类的？像她这样一个有品味的美女应该不会穿着那么寒酸的内裤吧？后来我看到她时，无时无刻，脑海里就会冒出她身穿的素色阿嬤内裤...............大大扣分。我也很警惕自己，在任何有机会走光的场合下，都不穿这些丑陋的阿嬤内裤。其实对我而言，要是穿着性感豹纹丁字裤，我真不介意走光....................最恐怖的是，走光的时候是穿着一条皱皱的，大尺码的，绿色加咖啡猫图案的阿嬤内裤！

——糗死了。


我忍痛（哈哈哈）丢了一部分的阿嬤内裤，添加了一些可爱的。
新年了，你买新内裤了没？


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p/s: 换了新发型，新年快乐 Happy 2011 Everybody！


2011/01/30 16:52 2011/01/30 16:52
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